This is an article I posted to Ezine Articles a few months ago and I hope you'll like it.
It Reads:
Orgasm for women is no longer a myth; it is real, and it is a wonderful experience. Avoid boring sex. Learn the skills of getting your female partner to climax. She will love you for it.
For a woman, achieving an orgasm in a sex encounter is one of the most frustrating experience in the whole exercise of lovemaking. In fact many women still doubt the existence of female orgasm and many more find themselves having to fake it just to please their men. And when a man ejaculates before the woman reaches orgasm, there is a general feeling of failure and dissatisfaction on his part. It is a well known fact that a man enjoys sex more when his partner appears to genuinely enjoy it too.
But does orgasm have to be this elusive for a woman? The answer is a big NO. But a lot depends on the man. These days most women know about orgasms and they crave for the experience. And more than that, unlike men, the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms.
Getting a Woman to Climax:
This requires some good skills and a good knowledge of the woman's sex anatomy. It is important to know that sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Most women will climax without the intercourse if only the clitoris is properly stimulated.This is what a woman requires:-
· A relaxed and comfortable environment,
· A feeling of being wanted,
· Very tender handling by a skilled partner,
· A good foreplay,
· Romantic talking all through the exercise,
· A partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris before and during the intercourse,
· A man who can hold his ejaculation until she climaxes.
How to Go About It:
It is necessary for the man to find out from the woman what parts of her body she finds most stimulating and how she wants it done. Keep on talking to her as you gradually move from one part of her body to another.This is how I do it and it works very well with most of the women:-
· I start with gentle strokes on her whole body while verbally expressing my admiration,
· I move my hand to the breasts and massage them with gentle squeezes on the nipples. I do this until she starts showing signs feeling stimulated.
· My hand moves to the mouth of the vagina and massage it gently while at the same time I am sucking her breasts alternating with kisses on the lips,
· I move the hand to the clitoris while I continue with the kisses and the sucking of the breasts. I continue until I am satisfied she is ready for penetration. In fact most of them will demand it at this stage.
· The intercourse starts with slow and gentle strokes. I adopt a position that enables me to comfortably stimulate the clitoris throughout the intercourse and at the same time telling her what a wonderful vagina she has.
· I talk to her throughout the exercise; I want to know if she is enjoying it and if there is anything I can do to make it better.
· As she climaxes I increase the speed of my strokes to the maximum. Most of them will scream at this time and they are wonderful to watch.
· I don't withdraw immediately after ejaculation, I continue with the stimulation of the clitoris. Some women will experience a second orgasm. But some will not stand any further stimulation of the clitoris after the climax; they find it too sensitive and unpleasant or even painful.
Making love can be really wonderful and is good for your health.
What is your experience? Let's know.
Franc Leo
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